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FEATURE STORY – Attitude Matters

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I’m new at this so I will write it the best I can, as I remember …

Six years ago, life felt perfect. I’d just turned 60, retired after 35 years as a high school gym teacher – still fit, full of energy, whistling through every day. My wife Linda and I, married 41 years, had big plans: buy an RV, travel the country together. We mapped it all – Yellowstone’s geysers, Florida beaches, California’s giant redwoods. Felt like the best years were ahead. Then a constant calf cramp started nagging me. Thought it was just tight muscles from old coaching habits or extra golf rounds. Finally got it checked when it was really becoming a chronic problem. As expected, tests, scans, and waiting. Then that day in the doctor’s office changed our lives forever. Linda squeezing my hand, the doc looking me square in the eye. “Stage four pancreatic cancer. It’s advanced, and appears to be pressing on major organs. With aggressive treatment, maybe a year. I’m truly sorry.” Everything went quiet. Devastated doesn’t cover it. Weeks passed – in a fog – couldn’t eat, barely slept, dreams of road trips collecting dust. How do you process life’s end when you’re just getting started?

Slowly, I faced the reality. I had to. It wasn’t going anywhere. So I could give up – or fight like hell. No way was I giving up. Something deep inside – that faith I’d always carried – rose up stronger. Funny just how powerful it can be when it’s the only real hope available. I leaned into it hard, finding calm in the belief that something bigger had my back, that hope could carry me through dark valleys. Psalms spoke to me about walking through shadows but coming out stronger. That spark grew into fire. I committed fully to fighting smart: clean eating became my foundation – fresh greens, berries, lean protein, fish, no processed junk or sugar. Daily exercise turned serious – morning hikes, weight sessions, laps in the pool. Not chasing miracle cures, but building strength, fueling hope. And retirement – we always had planned on the traveling. This was NOT taking our dreams. As long as I was breathing, we are going to keep the plans and live every day as though it was our last!

That was six years ago. Yes, you read that right. Doctors couldn’t believe the checkups. First one: stable, no progression. “Remarkable,” they said. Appointment #2: tumor shrinking. Number three: barely detectable. Kept the routine – faith anchoring my mind, disciplined fitness rebuilding my body stronger than before diagnosis, nutrition as my shield. Last scan? Completely clear. Cancer-free and I’m 66. More alive than ever. In fact, we’re now planning a trip overseas.

Stage four pancreatic cancer? They gave me one year. Faith and hope said fight on – and look at me now. Clear proof: no diagnosis is final, no odds unbeatable when you hold faith tight and battle with everything you’ve got. Faith makes you unbreakable, hope lights every step. So, if I could give YOU a message, it would be this:
If you’re facing tough news, dig deep. Fight intelligently, believe fiercely. When you do, ANYTHING truly is possible – I’m living, breathing proof.

Keep battling, friend. You’ve got this.

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Editors Corner:

In this Breast Cancer Awareness month, know this:
your fear is real, your pain
is felt, and your hope is fierce. Strength isn’t just in the battle – it’s in each
breath you take when the weight feels unbearable.
You are never alone; even
in the silence, the power of your hope and the light of your purpose
shine brighter than anything cancer brings on.

Believe it.

Remember, your emotional well-being is just as vital as any medicine.

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